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Category: Uncategorized How to Save A Marriage? Get A Counselor That Can Actually Help You!

It is impossible to save a marriage unless both partners are committed to doing so! “How to save a marriage” is a search term used on Google by thousands of people per month. Sadly, usually just one of the spouses is doing the looking instead of two. If problems between husbands and wives are just getting started and both people

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Category: Uncategorized MARRIAGE PROBLEMS? HOW’S YOUR HEALTH

Your overall health impacts on your ability to give and receive love. If your general health is off and your energy level is low, it can trigger marriage problems. There is a growing body of evidence that mineral deficiencies can be linked to depression and anxiety disorders. Health problems trigger worry. Worry makes it difficult to feel good and in

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Category: Uncategorized MARRIAGE PROBLEMS? You Are Not Listening!

As a professional licensed therapist for the last 40 years, the most common problem I  have seen in counseling people experiencing marriage problems is communication break down due to poor listening.  In a previous post (see here), I examined the idea that your view or map of reality is unique to you.  This makes communicating problematic when we think we

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Category: Uncategorized FREE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE–YOUR MAP IS NOT THE TERRITORY

More under the heading of free relationship advice: “Your map is not the territory” is a way of saying that what you think is reality ain’t necessarily so.  What you call reality is a map you have been constructing over time in your mind. It is made up of mental imagery, words, remembered smells, and emotions. it is a hologram

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Category: Uncategorized Free Relationship Advice–Make It A Win-Win

I first heard the term win-win at a business conference.  It was good, free relationship advice. The idea behind it is simple.  When you do business with somebody, whatever deal you strike with your customer or buyer should be something that genuinely benefits him or her as well as you! its essence is one of I win and You win

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Category: Uncategorized Best Relationship Advice? Improve Your Self Image

Here is your best relationship advice!  Improve your self image!   People who have a history of discouraging relationships often suffer from a poor self image. I want to take this opportunity to introduce you to a man who died in 1989 after a long and successful career as an author and public speaker.  Earl Nightingale wrote and spoke about  the

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Category: Uncategorized LOVE RELATIONSHIPS AND THE FEAR OF GETTING HURT

Clichés are clichés because they are so true.  “Once burned, twice shy!” is an oldie but goodie when it comes to love relationships.. So some people are afraid to allow themselves to love because they have been hurt in the past, usually quite painfully. I remember, when I was 16, being jilted by a young lady and making a decision

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